I don’t have very much insightful to say. But it seems to be that the only men who go to clubs and do not act a complete fool (be it hitting on folks in a sketchy way, acting full of false bravado, etc) are the ones who go with their partner or friends and hang out with them.
Note: women don’t exactly act much better in the club. But it’s usually the men who are the aggressors and the one actually making people uncomfortable. So it’s on the list.